my jobs...

“Just keep asking questions. Does this job allow me to be myself? Does it make me smarter? Does it open doors? Does it represent a compromise I accept? Does it touch my inner being?”
— Suzy Welch

...reading...

“Reading makes me feel I've accomplished something, learned something, become a better person. ... Reading is bliss.”

— Nora Ephron

SLEEP

"Sleep is the best meditation."

— The Dalai Lama

Do not stop...

“Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning.”

— Albert Einstein

Letter of Apology....

Dear Dear Chin Chin,

I’m writing this letter to apologise to you. I’m not sure what have gotten into me lately. I hope it’s not because of the pressure I’m getting from both work and planning for our big day. But even if it’s due to either of them, I shouldn’t have reacted in such a childish yet moronic way and I certainly agree that all my temper and scolding of you for the last few days was all my fault and nothing to do with you. I do not know how I could make up to you since the damages have been done. What I could offer and do now is to slowly learn to handle them and learn to control my temper more and sometimes just letting go certain things and not pay too much attention or detail into it. I really hope that you could provide guidance and full support throughout my repent period and I really want things to move forward in a positive yet happy way for both of us as I do see a great and wonderful future that lies beyond for us. PLEASE FORGIVE ME DEAR and I’M TERRIBLY SORRY FOR ALL THE HARSH WORDS USED AND SWEARING AND ALL AND MOST IMPORTANTLY FOR NOT TAKING CARE OF YOU ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU NEEDED MOST OF ME!!! I DO NOT WISH TO SEE MORE TEARS AND ARGUMENT COMING OUT FROM THIS AND LET’S MOVE FORWARD TOGETHER… I LOVE YOU DEAR!!!

anger & pain...

“The bottom line is that anger causes pain. As long as we're trying to treat the pain, the root cause—whatever it is that's annoyed or infuriated you—will remain.”

— Liesl Schillinger

focus on present...

“Focus on the present, and enhance your time and life now rather than always working toward tomorrow.”

— Dr. Laura Berman

What you be, you be... What you want, will come...

“When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be. When I let go of what I have, I receive what I need.”

— Tao Te Ching

Busy-ness...

“Busy-ness is a state of mind, not a fact. No matter how much or how little we’re doing, we’re always just doing what we’re doing, simply living this one moment of our lives.”

— Norman Fischer

imagination

“Never limit yourself because of others' limited imagination; never limit others because of your own limited imagination.”

— Mae Jemison

...reprogramming...

"We can all reprogram our brain's responses by putting ourselves into new, initially uncomfortable situations. We'll learn fear might not mean "stop"; I've come to believe fear usually means "go."

— Frances Moore Lappé

...just me & u...

♂ ♥ ♀

why we argue...

Both of us lack of patience especially me…
Both of us wanted to win especially me…
Both of us find petty things irritating especially me…
Both of us lack of common understanding especially me…

We need to work on our PATIENCE…
We need to work on winning as “WE”…
We need to avoid petty things and look at the BIGGER picture…
We need to find back that common understanding that is slowly depleting…

Way forward, I’ll try my best to take a step back…
Way forward, I will use and think more of “WE”…
Way forward, always think out of the box and look for bigger picture…
Way forward, re-build the common understanding fortress and make it even stronger…

Deep inside, we don’t want to hurt each other…
Deep inside, we know it’s a mistake but we are unwilling to give away…
Deep inside, we know somehow this will happen but we continue…
Deep inside, WE DO REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER but sometimes loving to the extent of becoming HURT…
Deep inside, I just want to say: “I’M VERY SORRY FOR ALL THE MISTAKES, HURTS AND MISUNDERSTANDINGS!!!” ♂ ♥ ♀

S.I.M.P.L.I.C.I.T.Y

Today Joke - ABCDEFG

An aunty saw a young couple. The girl asked the boy: "What's the meaning of ABCDEFG?"

The boy answered: "A Boy Can Do Everything For Girls."

The aunty felt so sweet and when she arrived home, she asked her husband: "What do u think about me?"



The husband answered: "ABCDEFGHIJK"

Aunty felt so surprised and asked the husband what did it mean.



The husband replied: "Adorable, Beautiful, Cute, Delightful, Elegant, Foxy, and Gorgeous & Hot!"

Aunty was confused and asked: "What about I, J, K???"

Husband replied: "I'm Just Kidding!"

Choices... Fate... Consequences... Right or Wrong?!?!

"We make our own choices and decide our own fate...No one else but US!!! So whether we are HAPPY or SAD, it's the result of the decision we've made earlier on...And we always have the VERY RIGHT to re-make or rather make another decision if we think that things will be BETTER off then... After all, it's we who will have to live with the CONSEQUENCES at the end of the day..."

The Voice of Patience

There are moments when other people just set you off, and you lose your patience.

It is the downfall of many of us — coworkers, children, spouses, other drivers, irritating people on the subway — they can grate, they can anger.

And it can ruin your day. You clench your jaw, you replay imaginary arguments in your head, or worse, you snap. And then you feel like crap.

How can we find the patience?

I will admit that I’m no saint. Just like everyone else, I get annoyed, and I will say things in a less-than-kind tone. I’m learning.

Here’s what helps me:

First, I learn to be aware of the emotions that rush up from nowhere.

I learn to accept those emotions as perfectly fine.

And I watch them, but don’t act.

I will talk to those emotions, like they’re a little child: it’s OK to be mad, but breathe. Talk to the other person, after you’ve calmed down, about the problem.

And then I breathe.

I remind my childlike emotions: other people are different, and that’s good. Celebrate humanity and all its glorious varieties. When people live and work together, there will be friction, and that is a part of the mix of humanity.

I remind: life is too short to waste my days in irritation and anger. Don’t let other people’s problems become my own.

I then give thanks. Gratitude solves all problems. I am grateful for having this friend, or stranger, in my life, and I’m grateful for the chance to even be here, and for the incredible life I have.

I talk to the other person, when I’ve calmed down, with compassion. I respond with love. It often will melt the other person’s jagged edges, and things will go better.

Patience isn’t an easy thing, but the alternative is much worse. Love will triumph if you let it.

You know you've found your soul mate when....

Dear orh dear, You are indeed my soul mate!!! The clock stop ticking the moment I saw you... here's the undescrible moment...

How could I say this,
When you are my only dear,
Nothing could shake me more but your whizz,
Missing you dearly day and night only could hear,

Wish you are here right now,
Sharing our little moments together,
It may not be soon but I know,
That 24 days counting I do not bother,

Although we are far apart,
But our hearts are close and tight,
Waiting for the day of your depart,
To be here with me day and night,

My love for you will be everlasting,
Nothing can stand between us,
Only for us to continue tasting,
Until it blossom and burst… EDDY LOVE MC 4EVER!!!

Astounding MC...

The moon is round,
I feel so astound,
Having MC around,
Holding her close without bound,

She is cute and round,
Love her all the way from ground,
Hugging her close around,
Going to miss her when i go abound...

Just You 'N' Me