...just me & u...

♂ ♥ ♀

why we argue...

Both of us lack of patience especially me…
Both of us wanted to win especially me…
Both of us find petty things irritating especially me…
Both of us lack of common understanding especially me…

We need to work on our PATIENCE…
We need to work on winning as “WE”…
We need to avoid petty things and look at the BIGGER picture…
We need to find back that common understanding that is slowly depleting…

Way forward, I’ll try my best to take a step back…
Way forward, I will use and think more of “WE”…
Way forward, always think out of the box and look for bigger picture…
Way forward, re-build the common understanding fortress and make it even stronger…

Deep inside, we don’t want to hurt each other…
Deep inside, we know it’s a mistake but we are unwilling to give away…
Deep inside, we know somehow this will happen but we continue…
Deep inside, WE DO REALLY LOVE EACH OTHER but sometimes loving to the extent of becoming HURT…
Deep inside, I just want to say: “I’M VERY SORRY FOR ALL THE MISTAKES, HURTS AND MISUNDERSTANDINGS!!!” ♂ ♥ ♀

S.I.M.P.L.I.C.I.T.Y

Today Joke - ABCDEFG

An aunty saw a young couple. The girl asked the boy: "What's the meaning of ABCDEFG?"

The boy answered: "A Boy Can Do Everything For Girls."

The aunty felt so sweet and when she arrived home, she asked her husband: "What do u think about me?"



The husband answered: "ABCDEFGHIJK"

Aunty felt so surprised and asked the husband what did it mean.



The husband replied: "Adorable, Beautiful, Cute, Delightful, Elegant, Foxy, and Gorgeous & Hot!"

Aunty was confused and asked: "What about I, J, K???"

Husband replied: "I'm Just Kidding!"

Choices... Fate... Consequences... Right or Wrong?!?!

"We make our own choices and decide our own fate...No one else but US!!! So whether we are HAPPY or SAD, it's the result of the decision we've made earlier on...And we always have the VERY RIGHT to re-make or rather make another decision if we think that things will be BETTER off then... After all, it's we who will have to live with the CONSEQUENCES at the end of the day..."

The Voice of Patience

There are moments when other people just set you off, and you lose your patience.

It is the downfall of many of us — coworkers, children, spouses, other drivers, irritating people on the subway — they can grate, they can anger.

And it can ruin your day. You clench your jaw, you replay imaginary arguments in your head, or worse, you snap. And then you feel like crap.

How can we find the patience?

I will admit that I’m no saint. Just like everyone else, I get annoyed, and I will say things in a less-than-kind tone. I’m learning.

Here’s what helps me:

First, I learn to be aware of the emotions that rush up from nowhere.

I learn to accept those emotions as perfectly fine.

And I watch them, but don’t act.

I will talk to those emotions, like they’re a little child: it’s OK to be mad, but breathe. Talk to the other person, after you’ve calmed down, about the problem.

And then I breathe.

I remind my childlike emotions: other people are different, and that’s good. Celebrate humanity and all its glorious varieties. When people live and work together, there will be friction, and that is a part of the mix of humanity.

I remind: life is too short to waste my days in irritation and anger. Don’t let other people’s problems become my own.

I then give thanks. Gratitude solves all problems. I am grateful for having this friend, or stranger, in my life, and I’m grateful for the chance to even be here, and for the incredible life I have.

I talk to the other person, when I’ve calmed down, with compassion. I respond with love. It often will melt the other person’s jagged edges, and things will go better.

Patience isn’t an easy thing, but the alternative is much worse. Love will triumph if you let it.