In pursuit of happiness...

"I've come to believe that seeking happiness is not a frivolous pursuit. It's honorable and necessary. And most people forget even to think about it." -  Goldie Hawn

get it right...

If you get the inside right, the outside will fall into place. - Eckhart Tolle

***SLEEP***

"Sleep is that golden chain that ties health and our bodies together."
  - Thomas Dekker

Contentment

Quash the urge to improve, to be better. It only makes you feel inadequate.
And then explore the world of contentment. It’s a place of wonderment.

‘Contentment is the greatest treasure.’ ~Lao Tzu

Courage, like fear, is a habit....

"Courage, like fear, is a habit. The more you do it, the more you do it, and this habit—of stepping up, of taking action—more than anything else, will move you in a different direction." -  Tony Robbins

[Kindness]

"[Kindness] is a most edifying form of instant gratification." - Krista Tippett

[3 IMPORTANT THINGS IN LIFE]

Not in any particular order but in a well-balanced manner:

• YOURSELF
• WIFE/GF
• FAMILY

without all of these you are nothing!!!

without any of these your life is lacking...

To complement them you need to have:

• HAPPINESS
• PERSONAL SATISFACTION
• POSITIVE THINKING
• EGO-LESS/SELFISHNESS SELF
• SIMPLE LIFE (Just enough but adequate to satisfy yourself & be happy with it)
• BLESSED LIFE (Don't question why you don't have this & that but rather be thankful/gratitude for things & people around you eventhough just having a simple conversation...)

Decluttering...

“Decluttering isn't just simplifying your life. It's having a vision, setting new priorities and using those notions to get rid of obstacles.”

— Peter Walsh

[Happy Dear] [Happy Dear] [Happy Dear]

Why are you not happy?
Is it because you miss your hubby?
Or you faced too much lappy?
Dear please spread ur smile & be happy!

We all have our ups & downs,
Please don't let them affect us upside down,
We are creature of emotions by our own,
But we can decide to be happy on our own,

We only have this moment,
Let's not waste it on morning,
We shall not let ourselves be torment,
Hence have a happy great morning!!!

my jobs...

“Just keep asking questions. Does this job allow me to be myself? Does it make me smarter? Does it open doors? Does it represent a compromise I accept? Does it touch my inner being?”
— Suzy Welch

...reading...

“Reading makes me feel I've accomplished something, learned something, become a better person. ... Reading is bliss.”

— Nora Ephron

SLEEP

"Sleep is the best meditation."

— The Dalai Lama

Do not stop...

“Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning.”

— Albert Einstein

Letter of Apology....

Dear Dear Chin Chin,

I’m writing this letter to apologise to you. I’m not sure what have gotten into me lately. I hope it’s not because of the pressure I’m getting from both work and planning for our big day. But even if it’s due to either of them, I shouldn’t have reacted in such a childish yet moronic way and I certainly agree that all my temper and scolding of you for the last few days was all my fault and nothing to do with you. I do not know how I could make up to you since the damages have been done. What I could offer and do now is to slowly learn to handle them and learn to control my temper more and sometimes just letting go certain things and not pay too much attention or detail into it. I really hope that you could provide guidance and full support throughout my repent period and I really want things to move forward in a positive yet happy way for both of us as I do see a great and wonderful future that lies beyond for us. PLEASE FORGIVE ME DEAR and I’M TERRIBLY SORRY FOR ALL THE HARSH WORDS USED AND SWEARING AND ALL AND MOST IMPORTANTLY FOR NOT TAKING CARE OF YOU ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU NEEDED MOST OF ME!!! I DO NOT WISH TO SEE MORE TEARS AND ARGUMENT COMING OUT FROM THIS AND LET’S MOVE FORWARD TOGETHER… I LOVE YOU DEAR!!!

anger & pain...

“The bottom line is that anger causes pain. As long as we're trying to treat the pain, the root cause—whatever it is that's annoyed or infuriated you—will remain.”

— Liesl Schillinger

focus on present...

“Focus on the present, and enhance your time and life now rather than always working toward tomorrow.”

— Dr. Laura Berman

What you be, you be... What you want, will come...

“When I let go of what I am, I become what I might be. When I let go of what I have, I receive what I need.”

— Tao Te Ching

Busy-ness...

“Busy-ness is a state of mind, not a fact. No matter how much or how little we’re doing, we’re always just doing what we’re doing, simply living this one moment of our lives.”

— Norman Fischer

imagination

“Never limit yourself because of others' limited imagination; never limit others because of your own limited imagination.”

— Mae Jemison

...reprogramming...

"We can all reprogram our brain's responses by putting ourselves into new, initially uncomfortable situations. We'll learn fear might not mean "stop"; I've come to believe fear usually means "go."

— Frances Moore Lappé